Straightforward stories

The following are general stories, where the men concerned had no regret. Some stories contain details of minor short term complications - I've tried to make it clear which ones they are.

Aaron Added October 21, 2001 Updated	Written the day after his vasectomy. Aaron calls his story "My 1Hr 20 min vasectomy". It took a while because the doctor hit an artery and had to repair this. Has some useful tips.
Alan Added September 6, 2002 Updated	"Vasectomy is an excellent choice for someone who has reached the point in their life that they do not want any further children. In my case it was my wife's health , I did not want to risk her life and I will be sixty-five when my youngest reaches 21 year old. The more prepared you are for the procedure the better you will do with it. It was my time to say farewell to fatherhood and I have no regrets."
Andrew Added June 10, 2001 Updated	Andrew had his vasectomy with the intention of having it reversed later if necessary. Here's his story with a P.S. added one year later. Unusually, this is a link to Andrew's site. He also has some links on his vasectomy page that others may be interested in - especially reversal information.
Anon #3 Added July 28, 2001 Updated	he credit's his wife for her support, and his doctor for skill, experience and sense of humour!
Art Added June 6, 2002 Updated	Art developed a couple of extra "balls" during the recovery, but they went within two months. "I am very confident that this will be one of the best investments I’ve made. So far, I am extremely happy with having a vas. No more kids, no more condoms, no more pills, and spontaneity!" says Art.
Babymkr Added May 26, 2001 Updated	Titled "It is your destiny, young Baybmkr" and is an Open-ended procedure story. "My procedure took place at "High Noon", and I actually shot a few hoops of basketball, and went on a short walk with my oldest son that evening!" says Babymkr. Has some good information about vasectomy research on the net.
Bernie Added October 11, 2000 Updated	Titled "Straightforward vasectomy - but not a straightforward decision". Bernie faced an uphill struggle with his wife to have a vasectomy.
Biker Added September 24, 2005 Updated October 2, 2005	Biker's story details his thoughts and fears the day before his vasectomy, and he talks about how the procedure itself went. "The reality of what was going to take place didn't really sink in until yesterday morning, after I shaved. I actually did start to get nervous. Now my vasectomy is done, and so far I'm feeling fine. Afterwards, he showed me the little bits he'd removed -- longer than I'd expected, maybe one inch. He said I should not bike or run for at least a week, and after that I could do it if it felt okay. I then walked gingerly out to my wife in the waiting room. She was pleasantly surprised that I could walk, she thought I might need a wheelchair or something! We got into the car, I immediately stuck a pack of frozen peas down my shorts, and we went home."
Bob Added October 20, 2000 Updated	Short story entitles "If not for yourself, do it for your wife. She'll love you for it!!!".
BoDiddley Added February 19, 2005	One month post procedure. "All-in-all, this wasn't too bad but I'm glad to only have to do this once. 1st week was the toughest and then no problem. Day 8 was when I didn't have the dull ache anymore and everything was back to normal for me. At week 2, I was back at the gym doing my normal workout."
Brad Added January 21, 2000 Updated	"I just wanted to let you guys know how it went. I feel good that my fertility is in my own hands. No more worries about unwanted pregnancies. A weight has been lifted from my shoulders." concludes Brad.
Brett Added early 2000 Updated	In depth conventional surgery. "Now in a monogamous relationship you can have unprotected sex without fear of getting pregnant. Thank God! There's nothing like great sex without condoms!" says Brett.
Brian Added February 19, 2002 Updated	"Vasectomy experience - the good, the bad and the ugly" is Brian's title for his story. Written 11 days after the procedure.
Capricious Added March 11, 2004 Updated March 26, 2004 Updated April 14, 2004 Updated April 24, 2004 Updated May 23, 2004 Updated June 8, 2004 Updated Aug 12, 2004 Updated Feb 19, 2005	This story is very detailed, and spans 18 months from the consideration to a year after the procedure, and has several twists and turns to it. The story starts:- "After due consideration, I hit the internet. What I discovered floored me. I had always heard that a vasectomy was a safe and simple procedure with little risk. We obtained copies of medical journal articles, reviews, and studies. I spent hours reading them, and searching further on the internet. I never found what I considered to be "good" answers. So, I had to weigh the risk in another fashion. I decided that the risk of complications, both medical and financial of a pregnancy out-weighed the possible risks to my health." He concludes:- "I remain totally amazed at how well this has turned-out for me, as even under the best of circumstances I expected to experience some measure of discomfort, but there was absolutely none. To this day I remain 100-percent convinced that this was the correct decision for me to make. It is a decision that everyone has to make for himself - I will share my story, but I will not try to convince anyone to do as I have. I guess the fact that I don't even think about it any more tells you quite a bit. Never had any problems, never had any pain or other after effects. Other than a few "positives" on the tests, everything has gone exceeding well. "
Cass Added early 2000 Updated	English guy's experience where general anaesthetic used, written the day after. Cass says (tongue in cheek of course) "Those who have partners, they must understand that you are to be treated like Royalty. Don't let them get away without a good deal of pampering etc, after all they only had the babies...."
Charles Added April 3, 2001 Updated	"One year on and no regrets" is Charles' title for his story. He describes how his wife had to sign the consent form. His reasons for having a vasectomy are commoner than many think....
Chris #2 Added January 24th, 2003 Updated	Titled "Now will you shut up about the episiotomy?". Chris lives in the Netherlands, and wondered if he would practice his language skills during the procedure or not! He concludes:- "No one at work has even guessed. I'm actually dying to tell someone to maybe get some sympathy - and it's always good to steer the conversation around to your genitals, but I don't know how to broach the subject. My 3 year old son is broadcasting to anyone who'll listen that "Daddy's got a sore willy" - after that you WANT to tell them it's not that kind of sore willy, it's only a vasectomy!"
Christopher #2 Added March 12, 2006	Christopher's story starts the night before his vasectomy, and follows through to the recovery. "Struggling right now with the decision to tell the kids - both girls, 9 and 13. Not sure how they will react to this news. Probably with a shoulder shrug, hope you're OK, can I have the remote now Dad? It wasn't nearly as bad of a procedure as I had built up in my mind - stirrups, scalpels, cute nurses all standing around looking at me in all my glory was what I was certain I was in for. But it was actually quite easy. Aside from the humbling experience of being completely naked from the waist down in front of someone other than my wife, it was kind of funny."
Chux Added August 15, 2003 Updated	Billed as "Preacher gets the chop!". Chux is a Pentecostal minister/ musician and asked himself "Should I actually do this? What would Jesus do?" He came to the conclusion that the vasectomy was the right way forward and describes his experience.
DaddyNator Added July 15, 2001 Updated	This story has a few references to newsgroup threads at the time, and features his responses and opinions to them. He discusses his reasons for vasectomy and has some useful tips.
Dairenn Added March 23rd, 2003 Updated Apr 19, 2003	Childfree vasectomy at 22. Dairenn details how he prepared for the consultation, and he discusses his web research into post-vasectomy clearance.
Dan #3 Added January 28th 2004	Dan says:- "All in all, not too bad" in summarising his experience. He did the shaving the night before but "the nurse informed me that I should have been told to shave my entire groin! She, of course, had to bring in a couple other nurses to confirm I was still too hairy. She clipped and shaved for 20 minutes, still not removing all the hair. She was using admittedly cheap razors and cold water - "sorry, the water doesn't get hot back here"! My testicles had almost gone internal by the time she was finished." Some encouraging words about the use of the jockstrap in during recovery too!
Dan #5 Added September 24, 2005	"The initial visit took about five minutes. The doctor wanted to make sure I knew what I was doing. After explaining that I was forty, married sixteen years, and had two kids, he dispensed with the formalities, described the surgery, told me to show up clean-shaven and with a jock strap. I was back in the saddle after a week. Just take it easy and don't push yourself. All in all, the whole thing was no big deal and well worth it. I'm like a kid with a new toy."
Dan L Added early 2000 Updated	"This page helped me make my decision to have a vasectomy, so I'm offering my own first hand account of the procedure to hopefully help some other poor worried soul :)".
Danny Added February 8th, 2003 Updated	Danny is from Canada. His story tells about his consultation and the recovery. He concludes:- "I keep hearing from many of my wife's friends that there husbands are "afraid" to go. Please don't leave this up to the woman as it's a MUCH bigger procedure. Just sign up and do it!"
David Added August 18, 2002 Updated	David titles his story "A very minor operation, but a big decision for a man to make". David's marriage was at risk prior to the vasectomy. Unfortunately no update to the story.
David #2 Added November 25, 2002 Updated	"Out of all the options available (the pill, her getting her tubes tied, condoms etc. etc.) A Vasectomy was by far the most economical, the safest, the most reliable etc. Comparing a vasectomy to a woman have her tubes tied. Well, there just isn't any comparison."
DBU Added October 13, 2004	"For those of you worried about it...don't be. It's not that big a deal. After seeing my wife give birth to four girls (yes four, I have a male dog and that's the only help I get around here) I consider this the less painful process."
Dennis #2 Added March 9, 2008	"I didn't think I would ever have the need for a vasectomy. We tried for 6 years to have children using all means possibly and spending around $40,000 in the process. After deciding it just wasn't in God's plans for us to have children we stopped trying. Within a couple of weeks my wife was pregnant with our son. When my mom passed away and me being an only child I didn't want my son to have to go through that experience and we decided to try for a second child. The very first try my wife was pregnant with our daughter. That led me to consider the vasectomy since I am now older and facing several health issues. We just felt we were extremely blessed and didn't want to risk another pregnancy later on in life."
Dorino Added February 28, 2001 Updated	South African NSV experience - watch out if you've hairy legs guys!
Gary Added April 5, 2000 Updated	NSV story. Gary concludes "All in all, I would recommend the NSV - I would rather go through the whole process again, than go to the dentist. It was quick, painless, and no stitches (I went home with a band-aid).
Gerard Added 20th November 2002 Updated	"Would I do it again?? Well, I met a cute young thing a couple weeks ago and we're on the verge of intimacy. In conversation just the other day she told me that she's off the pill for a while and that she believes in abortion-but wouldn't have one sooo....I just smiled and told her that wouldn't be a problem..."
Graham #2 Added February 18th, 2003 Updated	Graham had his NSV vasectomy done in a private practice in the UK. In the UK most vasectomies are performed on the NHS, and not a lot of choice is available. Graham stumped up the cash and went private - read his experience of this.
Greg Added February 24, 2000 Updated	A story from the early days of the newsgroup/website that explains how we helped the guy through his vasectomy.
Greg #3 Added September 25, 2000 Updated	Greg admits to being nervous (we all were Greg!!) It wasn't as bad as he was expecting, and he concludes "All in all it was a cake walk. My advice stop worrying, its not worth it."
Grufty Added October 28, 2007	Football fan's short vasectomy story.
HP Added October 24, 2004 Updated Nov 4, 2004 Updated Nov 20, 2004	"Reading the PVP stories on this site gave me anxiety and panic attack for nothing. I say cleaning my teeth was a lot worse. My recommendation to any man thinking about V, but afraid of the pain is don't be - it's no worse than giving blood." The update is one month later.
Ian Added March 31, 2002 Updated	"National Health in Manchester - My 20 min op". Vasectomy story in diary form.
James Added early 2000 Updated August 27, 2007	"I always said I'd never have the snip, but life changes many things! A celebration of ten sperm-free years." I'm the webmaster of this site, and this is my story. I originally added my story to the site back in early 2000, and I thought it would be a good idea to celebrate a decade of being sperm-free by updating my story.
James #2 Added October 23, 2001 Updated	James recommends asking for Valium or other sedative - it helped him!
Jeff #4 Added May 30, 2004 Updated	"Overall I'm very pleased with the experience and I'm actually a bit embarrassed that I made such a big deal out of it beforehand. It is fun to tell people that haven't had one and watch their reaction as they squirm around in their seats, but as far as I'm concerned the procedure was really pretty simple and not nearly as painful as it sounds."
Jim Added June 19, 2000 Updated	New Yorker's experience - "Alternative uses for Sellotape and rusty scissors." is the title. Jim didn't say if it hurt when they pulled the tape off!
Joe Added June 6, 2002 Updated	"Overall, the result of the procedure is exactly what we wanted: freedom and no worry about more kids. Although it was a little painful to me (I am a wimp when it comes to pain), I am sure it pales in comparison to what my wife went through to bear 2 children. We're both very happy."
Joe #3 Added April 7, 2007 Updated May 20, 2007 Updated July 7, 2007	"I used your site extensively prior to my vasectomy and would like to put in my experience to hopefully help others. I believe there is an adverse selection problem when it comes to reading personal stories on vasectomy because most people only want to write about it if they've had problems. I haven't had any problems and I want others to know that it can be absolutely fine. I don't view myself as one of the lucky ones because we are in the majority. I view those that have problems as the unlucky ones as they are by far in the minority and this is a fact that often gets overlooked and leads to a lot of anxiety unnecessarily."
John Added October 28, 2000 Updated	"My personal story (or never bring your wife....)". John says he got his wife to watch:- "I figured I had watched her give birth to three children by caesarean and seen her uterus in a doctors hands, so this was the least she could do. This was to be my big mistake."
John #3 Added May 4, 2001 Updated May 11, 2003 Updated April 9, 2006	John didn't really want a vasectomy. He was persuaded by his wife into having one based on the opinion of her ob/gyn. John feels that different opinion from a different ob/gyn makes his vasectomy unnecessary. The 5 year update details the changes in his life since the vasectomy, and his current views on it.
John #4 Added June 14, 2001 Updated	John unusually had the consultation and procedure on the same day. He took a personalised version of this site's checklist and was impressed by the doctor.
Jon Added August 7, 2001 Updated	A straightforward NSV story titled "No big deal". Jon had done his research and knew what to expect. Except:- "Although my post procedure instructions said no sex for 7 days (I don't believe everything I read) we gave it a shot. TOO SOON! maybe should have been more careful of positions."
Jonathan #2 Added March 8, 2003 Updated	"I had a closed ended NSV Vasectomy three months ago. I had a positive experience and wanted to post the details, since you seem to hear more from those who have had problems. My way of thanking all those who did post their positive experiences and trying to make sure that both sides are heard."
Jose Added July 2, 2005 Updated September 7, 2005	Billed as "Mexican Vasectomy Experience". Jose says "Here in Mexico we have periodical 'Vasectomies Governmental Programs-NSV' due the population control in Mexico. I Had my vasectomy performed yesterday. I decided to do this about 15 days ago when I heard an advice at the local radio news." The update charts the time between the vasectomy and getting the "All clear".
Justin Added November 4, 2001 Updated	Justin asks why some procedures go wrong, and concludes that his went well due to his doctor having 30 years "In the trade".
Kenny Added August 5, 2000 Updated Sept. 25, 2000	New Yorkers NSV diary, started the day after his vasectomy. Kenny says:- "Although abstinence has been the way in our house, I would absolutely do it again if i was given the choice to go back in time. I had a cavity filled at the dentist last week. Vasectomy is not nearly as bad and is much quicker (and cheaper if you have insurance)".
Kevin Added April 9, 2003 Updated May 13, 2003	"I chose to go with no sedation. Something I would NEVER recommend to anyone after going thru it. Take the happy drugs - seriously". The update is 7 weeks later upon getting the "All clear".
Kevin #2 Added April 27, 2008	"I am a 44 year old father of three that has been happily married for 21 years. My wife and I have been contemplating having a vasectomy for years, but there was always something that came up and we never took the time to have it done. Finally this year we made a plan and followed through." Kevin had difficulties during the procedure (including a nurse feeling sick!) because of a tight scrotum. The doctor told him he might have to have it done under a general anesthetic, but in the end it was done under a local.
Kip Added early 2000 Updated	Kip is one of the founder members of the newsgroup, and the first web master of the group website. In fact, this stories section was his idea! Here is his story.
Lawman Added October 19, 2005	"I had heard the stories of swollen testicles, intense pain, long recovery, etc. I decided to research the effects myself and found your site very helpful and encouraging. It really gave me a comfort level and knowledge that I had not thought of in many areas. During the procedure, I had very few moments of any kind of discomfort. In fact, the shot of valium in my right arm and pulling the heart monitor sticky pads off my hairy chest was more painful than the rest of the procedure. I have had worse pain at the dentist."
Mark #4 Added March 25, 2005	"Two days and counting" is the original newsgroup thread that this story comes from. Mark wasn't looking forward to it, but it went well and things turned out fine.
Matt Added March 5, 2000 Updated	Matt comes from Australia. His story has a wealth of useful information, including information for sportsmen.
Matt #2 Added January 25, 2003 Updated	"I've read where some of these guys have had sexual experiences within the first week...you guys are crazy. I haven't had the courage to try, I figure I'll hold off for a few more days. Besides, I'm not sure I could get off with stitches on my dingus." Says Matt. He concludes:- "If you're biggest fear is the pain, don't let that stop you, it's really not all that bad."
Max Added August 21, 2005	"My wife had a rough pregnancy in 2003 with our son, putting her in cardiac care for several days following a C-Section. This was enough to make us decide not only would a tubal ligation require similar surgery and the same potential issue, but another pregnancy would possibly cause the same situation. We both decided it was best for me to get a vasectomy."
Max #2 Added April 13, 2008	Divorced dad's vasectomy experience. Max has three kids from his previous marriage, and his partner has a son too. The pill didn't work for Max's first wife, so this time round he's gone for the snip.
MB Added March 29, 2002 Updated	Short story written three weeks after his vasectomy. MB concludes:- "All I can say is "don't sweat it - just do it."
Michael Added April 16, 2003 Updated May 15, 2003	A vasectomy diary. "I asked him who would be in the room during the procedure, hoping he would not say "me and a nurse". The nurse is my major concern as I am extremely modest - of course he said "me and a nurse". I jokingly asked "an old nurse?". He said that he had approximately 6 nurses and if I preferred, he would line them up and let me have my pick. SmartA$$, I liked him already. All in all, this was the easiest no brainer in the world - it didn’t even come close to having a tooth filled."
Michael #2 Added January 5th 2004 Updated	Michaels says that "My story's a bit different from others', though in many way's much the same. The big difference for me from other men is that I have a disability called cerebral palsy. It's now a month since the op and it really could not have been easier."
Mike Added August 13, 2002 Updated	This story was titled "Knowledge is power". This is because Mike encourages people to read all they can about the procedure beforehand.
Mike #2 Added May 29th 2004	Mike lives in the UK. He was really nervous, and decided to pay privately after an unhelpful first visit to a family planning organisation. Mike says:- "I hope these experiences can help anyone else reading to know that it can go really well, and to say good luck!"
Mike C Added March 29, 2003 Updated April 16, 2003	Mike had a cystoscopy performed at the same time as his vasectomy. He had a couple of aches and pains after the procedure, but concludes:- "Overall the experience has been probably better than average for me I would guess, as I've read so much of guys having what seems to be a fair amount of discomfort the first week or so."
Mister Ed Added December 28, 2004 Updated March 25, 2005	Detailed diary of his vasectomy, and the recovery afterwards. The update has the "all clear" and a few final words.
Moose Added October 27, 2002 Updated	Moose got a lot of advice from his work colleagues by asking "are you snipped"? He says:- "I was told who to avoid, how to prepare, and asked why I waited so long (I'm 47 with one kid). I have to admit, it made me feel much better listening to my pals and getting real info instead of the generic hogwash that can be found in the vasectomy handouts."
NSVdad Added October 11, 2000 Updated	"My advice to fellow teachers. Get it done during the summer or at least on a long weekend. I can't imagine "performing" in front of a classroom full of students the very next day or two."
Ottoman Added October 21, 2000 Updated	Ottoman concentrates on his reasoning for vasectomy, and very importantly has a section on "Web information" and the need to be discriminating when reading it!
Pablo Added April 7, 2002 Updated May 7, 2003 Updated March 5, 2005	"The thought process and story surrounding the vasectomy is often far more eventful and intense than the procedure itself. It takes some powerful reasons to have us men consider someone cut around our balls. If you're considering it, the physical part shouldn't be a concern. It's all just very dull and remote discomfort that might be more psychological than physical." The first update is how he feels one year later, and the second update is three years post vasectomy.
Pat Added September 4, 2001 Updated	"My advice to those have scheduled the operation is to not let your fear overcome what is a very responsible, respected and admirable procedure. There are a lot of guys who "talk the talk" when it comes to planned parenthood, and I'm glad I'm one of those who also "Walked the walk." Remember Yoda: "Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to pain. Pain leads to suffering." Keep a positive attitude, focus on the big picture and remember you're not alone."
Patrick Added early 2000 Updated	In depth No Scalpel experience, with lady surgeon, lady assistant and girl fiend present!
Paul #4 Added February 3, 2002 Updated	Paul's story is written in a diary format, and contains a wealth of practical advice.
Pete Added November 11, 2000 Updated	"I had heard from a couple good friends that they used the six pack remedy - buy two six packs and put them in the fridge. When you get back from the Doctors place one six pack on your groin. Then start drinking the other six pack. I thought to myself "I can handle this." I drank 11 of the beers on the first night. I was hung over the next day but my balls felt fine."
Peter #2 Added December 1, 2000 Updated	"The procedure was somewhat intimidating. I am disappointed in myself for not "quizzing" my doctor as much as many of you on this site suggest. For anyone considering this procedure, take everyone's advice. If you have children, and you are satisfied with the number of kids you have, don't hesitate to do this, at least for your wife's sake."
Prakash Added March 25, 2006	Billed as "UK NHS vasectomy in 2006". "Recently I had been reading lots of postings about post vasectomy pain swelling etc., and I thought I should share my experience in the forum if that could be of any help to any one who might be planning on a vasectomy. The whole procedure went well - it was all over in about 25 minutes. After a rest and a cup of coffee I was told that I could leave if I felt okay. Came down to where my wife was waiting and I could comfortably drive the car home."
Randy Added January 25, 2006	Detailed story about the reasons for vasectomy and how the procedure went. "Several times over the last 11 years my wife suggested a vasectomy, to which I told her to go take a long walk off a short pier. I eventually came to the decision to have a vasectomy on my own. I am going to be 39 years old this June and during my wife's last OB-GYN visit she was told that having another child would be dangerous for her. I always felt cheated that I didn't have a Dad who was able to be my coach or be an active father - he was physically unable to do the things that some of the younger dads could do. So my age was also a factor in my decision. I did not want to be an old Dad. I wanted to have it done and be healed up in time to coach my son's baseball team this spring, so I made my appointment for January 6, 2006."
Ray #2 Added January 19, 2008	Ray had a large (grade 3) hydrocele, and anticipated problems because of this complication. His story is in the form of a diary running from the day of the operation to day 9. The story also has good advice for men considering vasectomy who have a hydrocele.
Redgie Added October 14, 2000 Updated Dec. 10, 2000	Redgie had an open ended procedure, and calls it "The most incredible gift a man can give his wife - the gift of not worrying about getting pregnant. Thanks again for the time and effort you put in to make this such a great website. I think it is one of the best available. Despite there being so many out there, only you and the beavercleaver.net site had information that was helpful to me personally."
Richard Added December 19, 2000 Updated	Richard wrote this story in part to balance what he felt was an imbalance of views at the newsgroup. "I made the right choice for myself and my wonderful marriage of 7 years. I would recommend this to anyone that is "serious" about birth control and making sex with your "wife" less stressful (after 4 month's)."
Richard #3 Added May 14, 2002 Updated March 29, 2003 Updated May 13, 2005	"31 days to go". Richard had a varicocele and aches and pains in the testicles/groin area. He had to decide if he was to have a vasectomy or not. His story is in the form of a diary and concentrates on the decision, the build up to his scheduled date. Will he or won't he??? Well, he did eventually, and the updates he has added since deal with the "all clear" and a post op granuloma several months afterwards. Richard updates his story three years after his vasectomy. "The freedom from worry has been truly liberating for both of us and has contributed to a better sex life....we're closer then ever, we're exploring each other's fantasies, and we're doing it more often-wherever, whenever we can. I've even had my penis pierced and now sport a very sexy Prince Albert (Sorry if that makes you guys who are recovering from surgery a bit squeamish). So as I approach the 3rd anniversary of my vasectomy I am a "Happy Camper" as they say...better sex, more sex, no worries...I couldn't have asked for more!" Richard has since sent in pictures of his Prince Albert piercing, and they are included at the bottom of the story.
Richard #4 Added March 5, 2005 Updated March 19, 2005	"I'm an avid mountain biker and the procedure had to be performed in the off-season to not affect my riding. Actually it's funny in reading a number personal experiences a lot of men are concerned about having sex again and my number one concern was getting back on the bike (yes I am addicted to the sport). The one piece of advice I can give anyone is to be patient and to rest. I think I jumped the gun the first weekend and set myself back. I also probably rushed get back onto my bike and into my workout routine, but that's me."
Richard #5 Added February 24, 2008	Short, positive story about vasectomy in Thailand.
Rick Added April 6, 2001 Updated	Rick titles his story "A breeze". he wrote it two weeks after his vasectomy. "Yesterday was funny as hell when I told my wife "I'm off to work, and by the way you need to drop off that specimen bottle on my night stand at the doctors office this morning". I think that was the most embarrassing part of the whole thing."
Rick M Added Jan 21, 2004 Updated	"Would I do it again? Yes. Would I use a urologist over a GP? Yes. The vas has been good for me. It saved the mrs a trip under the knife (having our kid was a horror story). I was scared to death of the procedure originally, now that it's over it was nothing. I had no side effects at all. I did do my homework beforehand, which involved talking to my Dr. in depth and hitting the docs I work with up for info."
Rick #2 Added October 27, 2002 Updated	Written two days afterwards and titled "Ouch - that hurt!". He did have problem on the left side, but concludes:- "Looking back, even when I could feel the vas being burned, it wasn't that bad. Its more of a mental thing than a physical thing. I wouldn't hesitate to do it again if necessary."
Rob Added August 13, 2006	"The decision was not too big a deal. My wife and I do not want more kids, and she has had a variety of complications with other kinds of birth control we've used including an IUD that "went missing". Also after having given birth twice, I feel quite certain that she has done her bit, and it was time for me to step up."
RoboG Added October 7, 2004 Updated Oct 31, 2004 Updated Dec 28, 2004 Updated October 9, 2005	"I want to say how great it is to have THIS particular resource where folks who have been through the procedure(s) can talk about their experiences. Other than the zealous pro / con propaganda that is on the internet, this is real world comments from real world people." The updates were posted a month after the procedure, and after the "All clear" and a year afterwards.
Rodney Added April 4, 2000 Updated	Written ten days later and titled "It's easier than you think guys". After a condom failure Rodney says:- "My primary reason for having a vasectomy was because I lost all faith in using condoms as a secure form of birth control and I wanted to make sure that I did not have a fourth child. I was dreading the possibility of two painful needles directly into the testicles and all of the pain that was supposed to follow. I am happy to report that the whole thing was a breeze."
Ron Added December 19, 2000 Updated	NSV vasectomy written a day or so later. "All in all, not bad. The worrying was much worse than the actual event. Again, the worst part for me was the nurse working on me - and that is due to my own idiosyncrasies."
Ross Added early 2000 Updated	UK NHS standard vasectomy experience. Titled "Beware of women with razors" because his wife "Got a bit carried away shaving him".
RTL Added October 21, 2000 Updated	RTL had a very easy procedure and has some useful tips and "Random thoughts" for us.
Sam Added April 28, 2003 Updated May 29, 2003	Sam is a keen on keeping himself in shape, and his story discusses the procedure, his recovery and how he got back into his fitness regime. "The fear and pain is all psychological. I think the best part is that I feel no different, and my mother-in-law has no clue I had this done. She was on a cruise when it happened, so I just laugh to myself when she asks when I am having the surgery. I might keep her in the dark for a few years."
Scott Added July 15, 2001 Updated	Scott took the advice of people on the newsgroup/website and was glad he did! He also had a student nurse to contend with.
Scott #2 Added August 25, 2001 Updated	"The injections were probably the most uncomfortable part. They are a lot like a dentist's injections, however the pressure buildup as the fluid is injected was VERY uncomfortable. It was weird to watch him wrap the silk, with these big arm movements. Just seemed out of place somehow, give the "delicacy" of the procedure"
Scott #3 Added April 28, 2003 Updated June 25, 2003 Updated March 5, 2005	A bleeding disorder involved. Also Scott and his wife are carriers of cystic fibrosis. Told with humour. The first update deals with how things panned out two months later. The second update is two years post vasectomy.
Simon Added December 19, 2000 Updated	UK vasectomy story, written on the day. "Friday night (the night before) I didn't sleep at all, I was very nervous, telling the lads at the gym didn't help me either. I suppose I was after a bit of sympathy. HA! no chance, I'll tell you now, some of the stories would make best sellers."
Spank Added February 12th, 2003 Updated	"Two work colleagues get the snip." Spank and Scott #3 work in the same place, and decided to get snipped together.
Steve Added early 2000 Updated	Uplifting Irish story. "In final, if you have seen your wife give birth - your pain is nothing. The female equivalent is much more painful! Although there are some bad, scary stories here. I am fortunate to have a great doctor and nurse and a supporting wife. Get a good doctor-do it in a hospital and take it easy! Go for it guys-your wife will be VERY grateful!"
Steve #3 Added May 1, 2001 Updated	"We have a four year-old boy, and though more children might have been nice, we were reluctant to try again. We are both getting close to 40 and my wife had some medical complications that made very pregnancy risky. After our son was born, my wife got quite ill. Luckily, she is fine now. We got lucky once and we are thankful for the son we have.... One of the things that did bother me about nearly all of these web pages with the information against vasectomy is that when you clicked on a link for more information it was almost always dead. Finally I tripped upon www.vasectomy-information.com. Finally! A web site that had some decent information. But best of all, it had the survey! And it had some answers that I was looking for!"
Steve #4 Added February 9, 2002 Updated	Story written four weeks afterwards. "I feel like I have joined some sort of club. I can honestly say the worst part has been having the hair grow back in. Seriously......this was truly a piece of cake. If you have been thinking about it, stop thinking, and start acting."
Steven Added August 21, 2005 Updated September 7, 2005	At the time of the first part of the story, Steve hadn't yet had his vasectomy. The reason I published the story early was that Steven feels that by doing so, it might help others contemplating a vasectomy at a Kaiser clinic by knowing about their "Vasectomy class". The update is written just after his vasectomy.
Stuart Added February 12, 2001 Updated	Stuart (from England) says his wife was more nervous than he was! "One thing I have noticed is the number of men who own up to having had, or are going to have, a vasectomy once it's mentioned. Mostly it's a taboo subject, after all you're getting you privates cut, but when the ice is broken then men seem to be happy to talk about it."
Tim Added March 16, 2000 Updated	Tim had the NSV procedure. "Afterward, I experienced very minor discomfort that lasted about two hours. It wasn't a stabbing pain or even a very dull ache. It felt more like a little bit of pressure, but definitely bearable. 400mg of Motrin helped. It's recommended to stay off your feet for 24 hours, but after 4 hours on the couch, I felt fine. If you have any concerns about the pain, don't ignore them, deal with them. It is definitely not what you would think it is."
Tim #2 Added November 16, 2002 Updated	"I had great support from my wife (who did not force me to do this). We agreed it would be on my terms (we had a friend whose wife scheduled it for him). Men remember to do it for yourself 1st and then for your wife and she will LOVE you for it."
Tom #3 Added October 30th, 2003	Tom was told that his vasectomy was covered by the insurance company, but they ultimately didn't cough up - he's in the process of disputing this. "I didn't do this for my wife; I did it for me" says Tom.
Tony Added September 5, 2004 Updated November 13, 2004	"On about day 3 quite a large haematoma appeared on my penis. My wife made me sit with a bag of frozen sweet corn on my nuts and take homeopathic remedies (apis mel and arnica). Surprisingly this really helped with the swelling and bruising. Well I have to say that day 12 was the first time I felt really OK. My wife and I managed a 5 mile hike. In retrospect, I have no regrets at having had the procedure and would recommend anyone who is seriously considering it to go ahead."
Trifold Added early 2000 Updated	Trifold is one of the regular contributors to this site and the newsgroup. His story is entitled "All you ever wanted to know about post-vasectomy sex but were afraid to ask..."
TroutMaskReplica Added January 29, 2001 Updated	Very detailed open ended vasectomy story. Goes into how he found a urologist and the research he did, as well as the procedure and outcome.
Ultimotion Added April 26, 2004 Updated July 17, 2004	The story starts with "It will happen to me tomorrow...", and details his thoughts in the period prior to his vasectomy, on the day, and in the period up to the samples.
Warren Added September 16, 2000 Updated	"Conclusion: It may not hurt that much for some people. My wife was afraid of the pain but I explained that I would be the one to experience it. I recommend vasectomy. My best wishes to everyone reading this and contemplating this minor operation."
Watelifta Added February 3, 2002 Updated	"I had my vasectomy last night at 6:30 pm. I Know at least 5 other guys who had the procedure. All of whom said it was a painless no big thing. I of course was nervous all day, 6:30 in the evening was a long wait.... Home we went, hung out with the kids. I was waiting for the pain to set in, it never did though. This morning went just as well, no pain, no medication, nothing. I had my first erection which felt kinda weird. I will admit, seeing my girl in her gym attire got me excited enough to temporarily forget about my vasectomy, but I will wait at least a few days."
Wrentham Added August 23, 2003 Updated 16 Nov 2003	"I have to say that with all I had read that the no scalpel really does work well and I am very proud and happy to have it done and can hardly wait for the sample count reports. By the way, the doctor told me I was the 2nd oldest person he had performed it on. If anything it has brought my significant other and myself closer together." The update details his feelings upon being given the "All clear".

Personal experiences

The following are general stories, where the men concerned had no regret. Some stories contain details of minor short term complications - I've tried to make it clear which ones they are.

Written the day after his vasectomy. Aaron calls his story "My 1Hr 20 min vasectomy". It took a while because the doctor hit an artery and had to repair this. Has some useful tips.

Andrew had his vasectomy with the intention of having it reversed later if necessary. Here's his story with a P.S. added one year later. Unusually, this is a link to Andrew's site. He also has some links on his vasectomy page that others may be interested in - especially reversal information.

he credit's his wife for her support, and his doctor for skill, experience and sense of humour!

Art developed a couple of extra "balls" during the recovery, but they went within two months. "I am very confident that this will be one of the best investments I’ve made. So far, I am extremely happy with having a vas. No more kids, no more condoms, no more pills, and spontaneity!" says Art.

Titled "Straightforward vasectomy - but not a straightforward decision". Bernie faced an uphill struggle with his wife to have a vasectomy.

Short story entitles "If not for yourself, do it for your wife. She'll love you for it!!!".

"I just wanted to let you guys know how it went. I feel good that my fertility is in my own hands. No more worries about unwanted pregnancies. A weight has been lifted from my shoulders." concludes Brad.

In depth conventional surgery. "Now in a monogamous relationship you can have unprotected sex without fear of getting pregnant. Thank God! There's nothing like great sex without condoms!" says Brett.

"Vasectomy experience - the good, the bad and the ugly" is Brian's title for his story. Written 11 days after the procedure.

"One year on and no regrets" is Charles' title for his story. He describes how his wife had to sign the consent form. His reasons for having a vasectomy are commoner than many think....

Billed as "Preacher gets the chop!". Chux is a Pentecostal minister/ musician and asked himself "Should I actually do this? What would Jesus do?" He came to the conclusion that the vasectomy was the right way forward and describes his experience.

This story has a few references to newsgroup threads at the time, and features his responses and opinions to them. He discusses his reasons for vasectomy and has some useful tips.

Childfree vasectomy at 22. Dairenn details how he prepared for the consultation, and he discusses his web research into post-vasectomy clearance.

"This page helped me make my decision to have a vasectomy, so I'm offering my own first hand account of the procedure to hopefully help some other poor worried soul :)".

Danny is from Canada. His story tells about his consultation and the recovery. He concludes:- "I keep hearing from many of my wife's friends that there husbands are "afraid" to go. Please don't leave this up to the woman as it's a MUCH bigger procedure. Just sign up and do it!"

David titles his story "A very minor operation, but a big decision for a man to make". David's marriage was at risk prior to the vasectomy. Unfortunately no update to the story.

"Out of all the options available (the pill, her getting her tubes tied, condoms etc. etc.) A Vasectomy was by far the most economical, the safest, the most reliable etc. Comparing a vasectomy to a woman have her tubes tied. Well, there just isn't any comparison."

"For those of you worried about it...don't be. It's not that big a deal. After seeing my wife give birth to four girls (yes four, I have a male dog and that's the only help I get around here) I consider this the less painful process."

South African NSV experience - watch out if you've hairy legs guys!

NSV story. Gary concludes "All in all, I would recommend the NSV - I would rather go through the whole process again, than go to the dentist. It was quick, painless, and no stitches (I went home with a band-aid).

Graham had his NSV vasectomy done in a private practice in the UK. In the UK most vasectomies are performed on the NHS, and not a lot of choice is available. Graham stumped up the cash and went private - read his experience of this.

A story from the early days of the newsgroup/website that explains how we helped the guy through his vasectomy.

Greg admits to being nervous (we all were Greg!!) It wasn't as bad as he was expecting, and he concludes "All in all it was a cake walk. My advice stop worrying, its not worth it."

Football fan's short vasectomy story.

"Reading the PVP stories on this site gave me anxiety and panic attack for nothing. I say cleaning my teeth was a lot worse. My recommendation to any man thinking about V, but afraid of the pain is don't be - it's no worse than giving blood." The update is one month later.

"National Health in Manchester - My 20 min op". Vasectomy story in diary form.

James recommends asking for Valium or other sedative - it helped him!

New Yorker's experience - "Alternative uses for Sellotape and rusty scissors." is the title. Jim didn't say if it hurt when they pulled the tape off!

"Overall, the result of the procedure is exactly what we wanted: freedom and no worry about more kids. Although it was a little painful to me (I am a wimp when it comes to pain), I am sure it pales in comparison to what my wife went through to bear 2 children. We're both very happy."

"My personal story (or never bring your wife....)". John says he got his wife to watch:- "I figured I had watched her give birth to three children by caesarean and seen her uterus in a doctors hands, so this was the least she could do. This was to be my big mistake."

John unusually had the consultation and procedure on the same day. He took a personalised version of this site's checklist and was impressed by the doctor.

A straightforward NSV story titled "No big deal". Jon had done his research and knew what to expect. Except:- "Although my post procedure instructions said no sex for 7 days (I don't believe everything I read) we gave it a shot. TOO SOON! maybe should have been more careful of positions."

"I had a closed ended NSV Vasectomy three months ago. I had a positive experience and wanted to post the details, since you seem to hear more from those who have had problems. My way of thanking all those who did post their positive experiences and trying to make sure that both sides are heard."

Justin asks why some procedures go wrong, and concludes that his went well due to his doctor having 30 years "In the trade".

"I chose to go with no sedation. Something I would NEVER recommend to anyone after going thru it. Take the happy drugs - seriously". The update is 7 weeks later upon getting the "All clear".

Kip is one of the founder members of the newsgroup, and the first web master of the group website. In fact, this stories section was his idea! Here is his story.

"Two days and counting" is the original newsgroup thread that this story comes from. Mark wasn't looking forward to it, but it went well and things turned out fine.

Matt comes from Australia. His story has a wealth of useful information, including information for sportsmen.

Divorced dad's vasectomy experience. Max has three kids from his previous marriage, and his partner has a son too. The pill didn't work for Max's first wife, so this time round he's gone for the snip.

Short story written three weeks after his vasectomy. MB concludes:- "All I can say is "don't sweat it - just do it."

Michaels says that "My story's a bit different from others', though in many way's much the same. The big difference for me from other men is that I have a disability called cerebral palsy. It's now a month since the op and it really could not have been easier."

This story was titled "Knowledge is power". This is because Mike encourages people to read all they can about the procedure beforehand.

Mike lives in the UK. He was really nervous, and decided to pay privately after an unhelpful first visit to a family planning organisation. Mike says:- "I hope these experiences can help anyone else reading to know that it can go really well, and to say good luck!"

Detailed diary of his vasectomy, and the recovery afterwards. The update has the "all clear" and a few final words.

"My advice to fellow teachers. Get it done during the summer or at least on a long weekend. I can't imagine "performing" in front of a classroom full of students the very next day or two."

Ottoman concentrates on his reasoning for vasectomy, and very importantly has a section on "Web information" and the need to be discriminating when reading it!

In depth No Scalpel experience, with lady surgeon, lady assistant and girl fiend present!

Paul's story is written in a diary format, and contains a wealth of practical advice.

Ray had a large (grade 3) hydrocele, and anticipated problems because of this complication. His story is in the form of a diary running from the day of the operation to day 9. The story also has good advice for men considering vasectomy who have a hydrocele.

Short, positive story about vasectomy in Thailand.

Written two days afterwards and titled "Ouch - that hurt!". He did have problem on the left side, but concludes:- "Looking back, even when I could feel the vas being burned, it wasn't that bad. Its more of a mental thing than a physical thing. I wouldn't hesitate to do it again if necessary."

NSV vasectomy written a day or so later. "All in all, not bad. The worrying was much worse than the actual event. Again, the worst part for me was the nurse working on me - and that is due to my own idiosyncrasies."

UK NHS standard vasectomy experience. Titled "Beware of women with razors" because his wife "Got a bit carried away shaving him".

RTL had a very easy procedure and has some useful tips and "Random thoughts" for us.

Scott took the advice of people on the newsgroup/website and was glad he did! He also had a student nurse to contend with.

A bleeding disorder involved. Also Scott and his wife are carriers of cystic fibrosis. Told with humour. The first update deals with how things panned out two months later. The second update is two years post vasectomy.

UK vasectomy story, written on the day. "Friday night (the night before) I didn't sleep at all, I was very nervous, telling the lads at the gym didn't help me either. I suppose I was after a bit of sympathy. HA! no chance, I'll tell you now, some of the stories would make best sellers."

"Two work colleagues get the snip." Spank and Scott #3 work in the same place, and decided to get snipped together.

Story written four weeks afterwards. "I feel like I have joined some sort of club. I can honestly say the worst part has been having the hair grow back in. Seriously......this was truly a piece of cake. If you have been thinking about it, stop thinking, and start acting."

"I had great support from my wife (who did not force me to do this). We agreed it would be on my terms (we had a friend whose wife scheduled it for him). Men remember to do it for yourself 1st and then for your wife and she will LOVE you for it."

Tom was told that his vasectomy was covered by the insurance company, but they ultimately didn't cough up - he's in the process of disputing this. "I didn't do this for my wife; I did it for me" says Tom.

Trifold is one of the regular contributors to this site and the newsgroup. His story is entitled "All you ever wanted to know about post-vasectomy sex but were afraid to ask..."

Very detailed open ended vasectomy story. Goes into how he found a urologist and the research he did, as well as the procedure and outcome.

The story starts with "It will happen to me tomorrow...", and details his thoughts in the period prior to his vasectomy, on the day, and in the period up to the samples.

"Conclusion: It may not hurt that much for some people. My wife was afraid of the pain but I explained that I would be the one to experience it. I recommend vasectomy. My best wishes to everyone reading this and contemplating this minor operation."