Personal experiences

Sam had his vasectomy performed with the Marie Stopes procedure, and reports the most painful part of the procedure as "Handing over the money".

Brett has a new Indian net name - "Sitting hurts". He had a vasectomy at the end of September 2009. He developed a scrotal hematoma afterwards. His story details the procedure, the hematoma and his recovery to date. He also offers some good advice on how to cope with recovery. He's promised to keep us up to date with the recovery.

Dave had his vasectomy way back in 1986. His story describes the procedure itself, plus the healing period and changes he noticed in the following years.

Julie particularly identified with what Janice had written, although her circumstances are very different. She also was affected by the stories of Ganymedes, and Tony #3.

"You can tell someone to bump that 0% on early recanalization of a vasectomy that included cautery just a tiny bit. The lesson in this story is for everyone to do the right thing and get tested twice with two negative results before stopping the use of contraceptives."

Tony bills this story as "The worst decision I ever made". He suffered post vasectomy problems, and ultimately had a reversal to resolve them. The story documents his decisions, his research into the problems and has some quotes from others with problems.

This exceptionally well written story covers Ganymedes experience right through the decision process to nearly a year post vasectomy. The vasectomy recovery wasn't the advertised "Couple of days rest", and the story deals with this, and all of the emotional and mental fallout from it. Women reading this section are advised to read this story in particular - you will understand your husband a lot better as a result!

Andy had his vasectomy performed at the Marie Stopes clinic. Thanks to some of the online stories, he was expecting a rough ride but was pleasantly surprised at how easily the procedure went.

Chris had a varicocele prior to his vasectomy. The story follows the surgery and recovery. He concludes that "Overall, I'm very glad I had the vasectomy, despite the pain for those few days and the discomfort for a week or two longer than I expected."

Short story from Bill. "It is no big deal barring the complications that rarley occur. Lots of football, beer and understanding from my wife helped quite a bit. I truly reccomend this to anyone willing to take one for the team."

This story is entitled "My funny vasectomy nightmare - Putting the O my! in vasect-omy". It was written by David, and published originally in the Globe and Mail in Canada a couple of years ago.

Interesting childfree story. Nick discusses his reasons for getting sterilized in detail.

Janice's husband was the one to make the "No more kids" decision, despite Janice not being sure. Her story discusses her regret at the unilateral decision, and the effect it's had on their marriage.

Short, childfree story about a Planned Parenthood vasectomy.

Ray had a large (grade 3) varicocele, and anticipated problems because of this complication. His story is in the form of a diary running from the day of the operation to day 9. The story also has good advice for men considering vasectomy who have a varicocele. The update is some months after the procedure.

"The idea of vasectomy had been kicking around in my head for some time, about as long as could remember, probably as long as I had known about the procedure. Not wanting children and hearing horror stories of accidental pregnancies and not trusting my wife (or anyone else for that matter) with birth control, I had always wanted it done. However, I had this sort of defeatist attitude towards it, with images in my head of a kindly old doctor telling me to 'come back when you're 40.' One day it had dawned on me that now married and soon to turn 30, I was near an ideal candidate, or at least someone who could make a good argument for wanting one."

Marcus is childfree, and had an open ended vasectomy at age 23. As well as writing about his vasectomy experience, he's also sent in some photo's of the recovery and his foreskin restoration. The link to the pictures is in the story.

Andy had his vasectomy done at a Marie Stopes clinic in London. Andy's story mainly documents his recovery - which was longer than a couple of days. He found this site whils recovering and says:- "I wish I'd found this site before the op. The problem with many web accounts is that they're self selected by men who've had a nightmare. It was great to read accounts with a different perspective. Also the official line seems to be that either you have a serious complication or you should be back to work within a couple of days. No grey areas. It was great to read about guys whose experience was basically OK but had strange aches and swellings like me."

"I am a 44 year old father of three that has been happily married for 21 years. My wife and I have been contemplating having a vasectomy for years, but there was always something that came up and we never took the time to have it done. Finally this year we made a plan and followed through." Kevin had difficulties during the procedure (including a nurse feeling sick!) because of a tight scrotum. The doctor told him he might have to have it done under a general anesthetic, but in the end it was done under a local.

"I've been bothered with chronic epididymitis most of my adult life, with pain ranging from barely noticeable to flat on my back in ER wanting to rip out the offending part with a spoon. Needless to say, performance was an issue during these times and condoms were certainly of no assistance. The thought of an unplanned pregnancy was always lurking in the back of my mind-which was also of no assistance in the performance department. So, what other option does a guy have but to entrust his most precious possessions to a (hopefully) skilled professional for alteration."

However, Tim is childfree. Coupling the epidiymitis with the childfree status meant that his doctor wasn't so keen....

Divorced dad's vasectomy experience. Max has three kids from his previous marriage, and his partner has a son too. The pill didn't work for Max's first wife, so this time round he's gone for the snip.

"I didn't think I would ever have the need for a vasectomy. We tried for 6 years to have children using all means possibly and spending around $40,000 in the process. After deciding it just wasn't in God's plans for us to have children we stopped trying. Within a couple of weeks my wife was pregnant with our son. When my mom passed away and me being an only child I didn't want my son to have to go through that experience and we decided to try for a second child. The very first try my wife was pregnant with our daughter. That led me to consider the vasectomy since I am now older and facing several health issues. We just felt we were extremely blessed and didn't want to risk another pregnancy later on in life."

Short, positive story about vasectomy in Thailand.

Football fan's short vasectomy story.

"I always said I'd never have the snip, but life changes many things! A celebration of ten sperm-free years."

I'm the webmaster of this site, and this is my story. I originally added my story to the site back in early 2000, and I thought it would be a good idea to celebrate a decade of being sperm-free by updating my story.

Australian childfree vasectomy story. "I came out of a long relationship with an infertile woman, and I still have no desire to have children. At 39 I still look early 30's and have some interest from some younger, and my guess fertile women. Before enjoying my status of born again virgin, my biggest fear is the impact of getting someone pregnant; it happens even with contraception. I'm now a member of the infertile club. Although I didn't need it immediately, it was good to have it done. For me it helps as a communication tool. I say to a woman "I've had a vasectomy" they respond "You can have it reversed"; I say "No chance". We have a clear understanding, which is different to "I don't want to have children", where the woman still sees you as having the juice, but not willing to share it for procreation. It eliminates a certain section of prospective partners, but makes things more honest. I practice safe sex anyway, but if there is some stupid drunken activity, I know there will be no surprises later."

"I had a vasectomy about 11 years ago after the birth of our fourth child. I saw this as my duty given my wife had delivered our children and took responsibility for contraception up until that time. Overall I considered the procedure to be very successful but admit that I did regret the fact that I could never father another child. I shed a tear on my drive back home from the procedure but always thought this was the right thing to do. I'v suffered from various symptoms since my vasectomy and I have now decided to take the approach of returning things back to normal in an attempt to hopefully rectify these issues - regardless of whether they are physical or mental. I have booked in for a vasectomy reversal next month and shall keep you posted on it's effect."

"I remember driving to the hospital with a friend of mine, on the way to my surgery. He had the procedure done, and he did provide some good info that eased my nervousness. It helped, but not much. Now its 4 days later and I'm doing ok, a little pain every now and then, hurts to sit for a long time. I "tested the waters" and everything worked out great. I would do it again and I do recommend it. All in all not a bad day."

"I am in my early 30s, live in Florida, have been in a stable relationship for 6 years, and value my freedom. I don't like the concept of marriage, I despise the idea of being responsible for a woman, and I hate the perspective of being bound to finance a mother's lifestyle by paying for some offspring resulting from failing birth control. In so many words, no kids for me."

"I used your site extensively prior to my vasectomy and would like to put in my experience to hopefully help others. I believe there is an adverse selection problem when it comes to reading personal stories on vasectomy because most people only want to write about it if they've had problems. I haven't had any problems and I want others to know that it can be absolutely fine. I don't view myself as one of the lucky ones because we are in the majority. I view those that have problems as the unlucky ones as they are by far in the minority and this is a fact that often gets overlooked and leads to a lot of anxiety unnecessarily."

Greg had his vasectomy in 1990, and a subsequent reversal for PVP, and later on an epididimectomy. Greg is the founder of the Canadian PVP Assoiation

Vasclip failure story. "I decided to have the Vasclip procedure done in Jan 2005 after carefully studying about it for some time. In June of 05 the doctor cleared me and told me I was sterile, then Two years later my wife became pregnant."

At the time of submitting the story, Phil is onsidering a vasectomy. "In 1997 we were blessed with our first child, a daughter. Unfortunately she was born with a genetic condition called Cranio Fronto Nasal Dysplasia. In 1997 my wife fell pregnant again. Many people thought we were crazy having another one as the surgeons had told us there was a very high chance of it happening again, especially if it's a girl (the condition doesn't seem to affect boys)! We decided to find out the sex, and were quite relieved to discover this one was a boy!! He was born absolutely perfect. Right then we decided that two kids were enough as we didn't want to have to go through all that worry again."

Details problems that set in a couple of years after the vasectomy.

Anthony had his vasectomy done using the Vasclip procedure. He had persistant discomfort after the procedure, and when he sent in the original story was considering having a reversal. This ultimately happened - he had the clips removed. The update details his experience, and his experience in getting the insurance company to pay for the treatment.

Eric's procedure was painful. He recovered pretty normally, but the discomfort never went away. His story is written a few months after the procedure and he's currently waitintg to see a different urologist about it.

Straightfoward story from the UK with some good practical advice:- "One thing I haven't read in any of the other stories here - try and have a crap before your operation and don't eat too much, because afterwards sitting on the toilet is the last thing you feel like doing! I found sitting on the seat without any support to my balls quite uncomfortable - by the next day though it was fine. So avoid celebrating after the operation with a curry!"

The update is a year after the vasectomy. At the time of writing Nick had been prescribed antibiotics, but the problems didn't go away. When he sent the update he was waiting to see the urologist and will send an update soon.

"I am 22 and have no kids nor a significant other - this is strictly a scare-prevention tactic. Just minutes short of 24 hours, I'm alive, with morning wood which was REALLY great to have, and the whole previous day's event are sinking in. I'M GOING TO BE CHILDFREE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE! All in all, the whole experience has been remarkable in its unremarkableness!!

"I have been a visitor to this site for sometime. Many of you have helped me in making the decision to have a vasectomy by answering my questions and reassuring me that everything will go well. Just wanted to let you guys know that it is now 24 hours since my NSV and it did indeed go extremely well."

My childree vasectomy by "Everyone's Favorite Texan Transplanted To Belgium".

"The decision was not too big a deal. My wife and I do not want more kids, and she has had a variety of complications with other kinds of birth control we've used including an IUD that "went missing". Also after having given birth twice, I feel quite certain that she has done her bit, and it was time for me to step up."

John didn't really want a vasectomy. He was persuaded by his wife into having one based on the opinion of her ob/gyn. John feels that different opinion from a different ob/gyn makes his vasectomy unnecessary.
The 5 year update details the changes in his life since the vasectomy, and his current views on it.

"I'm 27 no kids, I never wanted any. I'd done a ton of research on NSV, opened ended, scalpel, etc. Literally spent hours of company time researching this stuff and felt very informed. I was very nervous the urologist would say no because I wasn't married and didn't have kids. He was very cool about the whole thing. I told him I'd researched this a ton, knew this was minimally reversible and to be considered a permanent procedure. He agreed to do it. He did listen and didn't dismiss any of my concerns. I made the appointment to get it done less than a week later. I got off work in the morning (I'm a fireman). Sat around the station and joked with the oncoming crew (who over half had had the procedure themselves). There are two things out of my control that were unpleasant - one is the nervous buildup of having it done, and the other is not being able to exercise much. I'm a Triathlete and marathon runner so exercise to me is like a lifestyle."

Billed as "UK NHS vasectomy in 2006". "Recently I had been reading lots of postings about post vasectomy pain swelling etc., and I thought I should share my experience in the forum if that could be of any help to any one who might be planning on a vasectomy. The whole procedure went well - it was all over in about 25 minutes. After a rest and a cup of coffee I was told that I could leave if I felt okay. Came down to where my wife was waiting and I could comfortably drive the car home."

"I'm a 42 year old bachelor who has long known he didn't want to have children and decided that now was the time to get a vasectomy owing to a job change and impending loss of medical insurance. "Now or never" was my way of looking at it. The hardest part is the anxiety one might suffer prior to the event, but if you've got a good doctor that anxiety is completely unfounded. I can wholeheartedly recommend this procedure, and feel very satisfied and, in a way, liberated. Don't let fear keep you from doing this, fellas."

"I wanted a vasectomy when I first found out that I could make kids whilst I was in special ED classes in school. Because I was a slow learner I didn't want kids like me or worse. I was 14 years old when I found out that I could make kids and found out how to I asked my family dr about it when I was 15. My vasectomy was march 17 2004."

Detailed story about the reasons for vasectomy and how the procedure went. "Several times over the last 11 years my wife suggested a vasectomy, to which I told her to go take a long walk off a short pier. I eventually came to the decision to have a vasectomy on my own. I am going to be 39 years old this June and during my wife's last OB-GYN visit she was told that having another child would be dangerous for her. I always felt cheated that I didn't have a Dad who was able to be my coach or be an active father - he was physically unable to do the things that some of the younger dads could do. So my age was also a factor in my decision. I did not want to be an old Dad. I wanted to have it done and be healed up in time to coach my son's baseball team this spring, so I made my appointment for January 6, 2006."

Vasclip failure story. "In October 2004 I had an elective sterilization performed using the VasClip device. In April my doctor declared me sterile based on a single negative test result. My wife missed her period in November. This isn't all that uncommon, so we decided to wait and monitor the situation. When her period didn't show up in December, we bought a pregnancy test and it was positive. I am upset that the procedure didn't work - especially since I chose this method due to faster anticipated recovery time (versus a vasectomy with cauterization) and expected success."

Dennis wrote up his story an hour or so after he got home, so that the memories were fresh. He ends the story:- "Right now, I'm eating some nacho's with cheese, happy to be home and feeling good that I made the decision to have it done. My wife's health is such that a pregnancy could be dangerous and its nice to know that, even though we'd always used multiple forms of 'protection' (pill, foam, & condoms), we won't have to worry about a 'surprise'."

"I had heard the stories of swollen testicles, intense pain, long recovery, etc. I decided to research the effects myself and found your site very helpful and encouraging. It really gave me a comfort level and knowledge that I had not thought of in many areas. During the procedure, I had very few moments of any kind of discomfort. In fact, the shot of valium in my right arm and pulling the heart monitor sticky pads off my hairy chest was more painful than the rest of the procedure. I have had worse pain at the dentist."

"I want to say how great it is to have THIS particular resource where folks who have been through the procedure(s) can talk about their experiences. Other than the zealous pro / con propaganda that is on the internet, this is real world comments from real world people." The updates were posted a month after the procedure, and after the "All clear" and a year afterwards.

Biker's story details his thoughts and fears the day before his vasectomy, and he talks about how the procedure itself went.

"The reality of what was going to take place didn't really sink in until yesterday morning, after I shaved. I actually did start to get nervous. Now my vasectomy is done, and so far I'm feeling fine. Afterwards, he showed me the little bits he'd removed -- longer than I'd expected, maybe one inch. He said I should not bike or run for at least a week, and after that I could do it if it felt okay. I then walked gingerly out to my wife in the waiting room. She was pleasantly surprised that I could walk, she thought I might need a wheelchair or something! We got into the car, I immediately stuck a pack of frozen peas down my shorts, and we went home."

"The initial visit took about five minutes. The doctor wanted to make sure I knew what I was doing. After explaining that I was forty, married sixteen years, and had two kids, he dispensed with the formalities, described the surgery, told me to show up clean-shaven and with a jock strap. I was back in the saddle after a week. Just take it easy and don't push yourself. All in all, the whole thing was no big deal and well worth it. I'm like a kid with a new toy."

Billed as "Mexican Vasectomy Experience". Jose says "Here in Mexico we have periodical 'Vasectomies Governmental Programs-NSV' due the population control in Mexico. I Had my vasectomy performed yesterday. I decided to do this about 15 days ago when I heard an advice at the local radio news." The update charts the time between the vasectomy and getting the "All clear".

At the time of the first part of the story, Steve hadn't yet had his vasectomy. The reason I published the story early was that Steven feels that by doing so, it might help others contemplating a vasectomy at a Kaiser clinic by knowing about their "Vasectomy class". The update is written just after his vasectomy.

"My wife had a rough pregnancy in 2003 with our son, putting her in cardiac care for several days following a C-Section. This was enough to make us decide not only would a tubal ligation require similar surgery and the same potential issue, but another pregnancy would possibly cause the same situation. We both decided it was best for me to get a vasectomy."

Very funny story about the day of his vasectomy from Billy in Copenhagen. "This being the summer holidays, the family was at home when I arrived back. My teenage son met me at the door. "Well Dad, I guess I'm the man in the house now," he announced cheerily. "Why is Daddy walking like that?" the six-year-old girl wanted to know. "He's had his balls removed," replied ten-year-old Big Sister with a worldly-wise air. "They're not removed! They're just ... disconnected," I protested. "Like batteries," added Big Sister, by way of explanation. Little Sister's eyes grew wide - this was adding considerably to her knowledge of Weird And Disgusting Facts About Grown-Ups."

"Tied @ last : The story of my freedom from fertility...." is how Anjaan titles his story. The update is dated July 2005. He wanted to let us know that he's still happy with his vasectomy, and that it's had no effect on his active lifestyle - he's a marathon runner.

Childfree 30 year old's story, written two weeks post-op.

"31 days to go". Richard had a varicocele and aches and pains in the testicles/groin area. He had to decide if he was to have a vasectomy or not. His story is in the form of a diary and concentrates on the decision, the build up to his scheduled date. Will he or won't he??? Well, he did eventually, and the updates he has added since deal with the "all clear" and a post op granuloma several months afterwards.

Richard updates his story three years after his vasectomy. "The freedom from worry has been truly liberating for both of us and has contributed to a better sex life....we're closer then ever, we're exploring each other's fantasies, and we're doing it more often-wherever, whenever we can. I've even had my penis pierced and now sport a very sexy Prince Albert (Sorry if that makes you guys who are recovering from surgery a bit squeamish). So as I approach the 3rd anniversary of my vasectomy I am a "Happy Camper" as they say...better sex, more sex, no worries...I couldn't have asked for more!"

Richard has since sent in pictures of his Prince Albert piercing, and they are included at the bottom of the story.

"My vasectomy at age 19 - I was childfree before it was fashionable!" is David's title. This story is added to both the childfree and veterans sections as he had it done way back in 1980. It's a very interesting story, and he concludes that "If you are really ready to make that decision, don't let anyone dissuade you, it is your choice and your path in life. Women aren't the only ones who have to "prove" to their doctors that this is what is best for them and their futures, although my experience pales in brevity to the wait some of you have gone through to become sterile."

"Reading the PVP stories on this site gave me anxiety and panic attack for nothing. I say cleaning my teeth was a lot worse". However, he did have problems for a couple of months. At the 6 month point, he reports that "Finally, after 4 months of this slight pain on the left side, it just went away w/o any treatment". In addition, it took 6 months and 4 samples to get the all clear. He concludes "Vasectomy is a personal decision that you have to make and be prepare to deal with any undesirable consequences. For me, it's a worthwhile decision that I'm not regretting and would recommend to my close friends with some cautions".

"Two days and counting" is the original newsgroup thread that this story comes from. Mark wasn't looking forward to it, but it went well and things turned out fine.

Detailed diary of his vasectomy, and the recovery afterwards. The update has the "all clear" and a few final words.

Forrest was extremely nervous in the run up to his vasectomy. This story is a compilation of his posts to the newsgroup during those few days, and afterwards. One little anecdote:- "The surgeon checked me and looked at the site. He said "What is your name?" I told him , and he said "And what are we doing this morning? I told him "Penis enlargement, Dr". The whole place howled." The update is when he got the all clear.

"I'm an avid mountain biker and the procedure had to be performed in the off-season to not affect my riding. Actually it's funny in reading a number personal experiences a lot of men are concerned about having sex again and my number one concern was getting back on the bike (yes I am addicted to the sport). The one piece of advice I can give anyone is to be patient and to rest. I think I jumped the gun the first weekend and set myself back. I also probably rushed get back onto my bike and into my workout routine, but that's me."

"The thought process and story surrounding the vasectomy is often far more eventful and intense than the procedure itself. It takes some powerful reasons to have us men consider someone cut around our balls. If you're considering it, the physical part shouldn't be a concern. It's all just very dull and remote discomfort that might be more psychological than physical." The first update is how he feels one year later, and the second update is three years post vasectomy.

A bleeding disorder involved. Also Scott and his wife are carriers of cystic fibrosis. Told with humour. The first update deals with how things panned out two months later. The second update is two years post vasectomy.

One month post procedure. "All-in-all, this wasn't too bad but I'm glad to only have to do this once. 1st week was the toughest and then no problem. Day 8 was when I didn't have the dull ache anymore and everything was back to normal for me. At week 2, I was back at the gym doing my normal workout."

This story is very detailed, and spans 18 months from the consideration to a year after the procedure, and has several twists and turns to it.

The story starts:- "After due consideration, I hit the internet. What I discovered floored me. I had always heard that a vasectomy was a safe and simple procedure with little risk. We obtained copies of medical journal articles, reviews, and studies. I spent hours reading them, and searching further on the internet. I never found what I considered to be "good" answers. So, I had to weigh the risk in another fashion. I decided that the risk of complications, both medical and financial of a pregnancy out-weighed the possible risks to my health."

He concludes:- "I remain totally amazed at how well this has turned-out for me, as even under the best of circumstances I expected to experience some measure of discomfort, but there was absolutely none. To this day I remain 100-percent convinced that this was the correct decision for me to make. It is a decision that everyone has to make for himself - I will share my story, but I will not try to convince anyone to do as I have. I guess the fact that I don't even think about it any more tells you quite a bit. Never had any problems, never had any pain or other after effects. Other than a few "positives" on the tests, everything has gone exceeding well."

"I chose the Vasclip because psychologically I liked the idea of "very" minimally invasive although to be honest I doubt there is much difference. It seemed to help me get over the hurdle a little bit to go over this route. Overall, I am very pleased with the approach."

Dan titles his story "Mr. Nervous". He says:- "It is now 4 days after the procedure and I have some bruising and a small amount of discomfort. I would have never believed I would feel so good.If you get anything out of Mr. Nervous's story is that it is not as bad as you may think." The update adds a bit of a twist. Medicines prescribed for a pinched shoulder nerve caused some swelling and bruising. Three weeks later and the positive has gone to a negative, and back to a positive again.

Adam is 37 and has suffered low-grade chronic testicle pain since a teenager. He had an operation at 21, but this ultimately didn't resolve the problem and he's just learned to live with it. This story is written 23 days after his vasectomy, and he had a scrotal hematoma. There are several updates to the story. The latest was posted a few weeks after his reversal surgery.

Childfree lady posters story of her husband's vasectomy from her perspective.

"On about day 3 quite a large haematoma appeared on my penis. My wife made me sit with a bag of frozen sweet corn on my nuts and take homeopathic remedies (apis mel and arnica). Surprisingly this really helped with the swelling and bruising. Well I have to say that day 12 was the first time I felt really OK. My wife and I managed a 5 mile hike. In retrospect, I have no regrets at having had the procedure and would recommend anyone who is seriously considering it to go ahead."

"For those of you worried about it...don't be. It's not that big a deal. After seeing my wife give birth to four girls (yes four, I have a male dog and that's the only help I get around here) I consider this the less painful process."

"My funny Pre-Vas story - What not to do to shave". Or rather, what not to shave with....... The update deals with the post-vasectomy samples - specifically the embarrassment at the counter you hand the samples into when you produce a bigger than average "donation"!

The story starts with "It will happen to me tomorrow...", and details his thoughts in the period prior to his vasectomy, on the day, and in the period up to the samples.

A childfree story. "There are plenty of breeders in the world (I noticed 4 pregnant women on the way to and from the doctors' office yesterday) so I figure there'll surely be no shortage if I opt out of the program."

Ann's partner had a reversal in order that they could have a child. He is suffering low sperm morphology and count, and she is suffering with a uterine fibroid. Ann's promised to keep us updated on the treatments. She has a list of useful links for others with the same problems. The update contains some very good news......

"Overall I'm very pleased with the experience and I'm actually a bit embarrassed that I made such a big deal out of it beforehand. It is fun to tell people that haven't had one and watch their reaction as they squirm around in their seats, but as far as I'm concerned the procedure was really pretty simple and not nearly as painful as it sounds."

Mike lives in the UK. He was really nervous, and decided to pay privately after an unhelpful first visit to a family planning organisation. Mike says:- "I hope these experiences can help anyone else reading to know that it can go really well, and to say good luck!"

Paul did his research thoroughly, and decided what procedure he wanted. He opted for closed end after discussion with his doctor, but he had a complication during the procedure. Plenty of useful, practical advice for anyone considering. After the procedure, Paul had ongoing discomfort. The updates deal with the discomfort, and it's medical treatment. In the final update 1 year 3 months later Paul says:- "Currently, I consider myself recovered. The left (troublesome) epididymis is more swollen than the right, and the level of swelling varies throughout the day from lump to a larger mass. But there is no pain unless I squeeze just the right spot (right up against the testicle), which is hard to accidentally. In fact, I've taken some shots from the toddler (changing diapers) and it feels good as new. Back to doing lawn work pain-free (that took about nine months, however) and basically all normal activities."

Vanessa says:- "Hi! My husband recently underwent a vasectomy, and we had such a positive experience, we wanted to share it with your website. Hope it's useful!"

Darrel had his vasectomy mid December 2003. Two weeks later pain started to appear. After a roller-coaster ride he eventually was diagnosed as having "a spermatocele due to back pressure of sperm". The story ends just over three months after the vasectomy. Things have improved greatly, and are continuing to do so. Darrel says He's "About 70% healed" at the time of writing.

"When my wife was pregnant with our youngest child she brought up the idea of a vasectomy. We didn't really discuss it, but I assumed it was what she wanted. When our son was 6 weeks old, I had the vasectomy done. My wife, as it turned out, didn't want me to have the vasectomy. I feel badly that I didn't discuss it more with my wife. I feel badly that I made her feel left out of the whole process. It has been a horrible experience mentally and emotionally for my wife and in turn, myself."

Dan says:- "All in all, not too bad" in summarising his experience. He did the shaving the night before but "the nurse informed me that I should have been told to shave my entire groin! She, of course, had to bring in a couple other nurses to confirm I was still too hairy. She clipped and shaved for 20 minutes, still not removing all the hair. She was using admittedly cheap razors and cold water - "sorry, the water doesn't get hot back here"! My testicles had almost gone internal by the time she was finished." Some encouraging words about the use of the jockstrap in during recovery too!

"Would I do it again? Yes. Would I use a urologist over a GP? Yes. The vas has been good for me. It saved the mrs a trip under the knife (having our kid was a horror story). I was scared to death of the procedure originally, now that it's over it was nothing. I had no side effects at all. I did do my homework beforehand, which involved talking to my Dr. in depth and hitting the docs I work with up for info."

Michaels says that "My story's a bit different from others', though in many way's much the same. The big difference for me from other men is that I have a disability called cerebral palsy. It's now a month since the op and it really could not have been easier."

Childfree vasectomy in New Zealand. "Probably the worst part for me was the hair regrowing - it was very very itchy!! I had my first semen test after 6 weeks - this came back all clear. The second test a couple of weeks later, and the test results came through this morning - all clear. I'm officially sterile. It's a great feeling."

Andy had his vasectomy during the England V Australia Rugby world cup final. He listened to it on the radio whilst having the snip! England won . He read all the stories and information both for and against, and used this information in his decision to go ahead.

Ray had his vasectomy back in 1970. Things were different then. It had only recently been legalised in most European countries. An interesting perspective on the past, and a comparison with today.

"I have to say that with all I had read that the no scalpel really does work well and I am very proud and happy to have it done and can hardly wait for the sample count reports. By the way, the doctor told me I was the 2nd oldest person he had performed it on. If anything it has brought my significant other and myself closer together." The update details his feelings upon being given the "All clear".

Tom was told that his vasectomy was covered by the insurance company, but they ultimately didn't cough up - he's in the process of disputing this. "I didn't do this for my wife; I did it for me" says Tom.

Simon searched for a doctor he was happy with - he knew what he wanted. "I've read some of the stories on here in which the doctors don't go over very many of the risks beforehand, but not this guy. He was quite thorough. Every possible risk that I'd read about online he brought up and described, including PVP. None of his vasectomy patients have had PVP, although two guys with PVP were referred to him who had had their vasectomies performed elsewhere"

Billed as "Preacher gets the chop!". Chux is a Pentecostal minister/ musician and asked himself "Should I actually do this? What would Jesus do?" He came to the conclusion that the vasectomy was the right way forward and describes his experience.

NotForMe originally posted this to the newsgroup. He intended to have a vasectomy, but what the doctor told him in the consultation changed his mind.

John didn't really want a vasectomy. He was persuaded by his wife into having one based on the opinion of her ob/gyn. John feels that different opinion from a different ob/gyn makes his vasectomy unnecessary.

Prior to his vasectomy, Euan had a varicocele. He was assured that it shouldn't make a difference to vasectomy. If he had been told that the varicocele "might" cause problems he would not have gone through with it. "What I am left with is what I would describe as a more sensitive left testicle. I'm going to be stuck with that but it does not prevent me doing anything including cycling with suitable support." He concludes that "I would urge anyone with a varicocele to think long and hard and realise that whatever the risks are for the normal treatment it is 100 times more risky with a varicocele."

John and his wife decided on a vasectomy after deciding further children were too risky. He had a granuloma afterwards but no regrets. Unusually he had a general anaesthetic. The update is six months after the vasectomy, and unusual twist to the tale...

Peter is from Singapore. He had to go to the ER when the stitches burst and the wound became infected. All ends happily though. Peter contrasts the usual advice of the west against the eastern view of the procedure.

Duncan calls his story "The unripe Kiwi fruit". Written in the form of a diary in the days following his vasectomy. He had a haematoma at the time of writing. He says:- "Three year old son is very concerned about his Dad's sore goolies and has taken to examining his own every 15 minutes".

Ken had his vasectomy primarily because "My wife was long convinced that vasectomy was the way to go". His first sample showed he was still fertile, his doctor suspected a third vas and discussed a second vasectomy. However, he was given the "All clear" after sample 3. Ken and his wife didn't communicate effectively over birth control, and he regrets his vasectomy because they might have found a different way if they'd have talked properly. At the time of the last update (less than three months post vasectomy), Ken was having occasional pains from sperm Granuloma's. Unfortunately no further update.

Sam is a keen on keeping himself in shape, and his story discusses the procedure, his recovery and how he got back into his fitness regime. "The fear and pain is all psychological. I think the best part is that I feel no different, and my mother-in-law has no clue I had this done. She was on a cruise when it happened, so I just laugh to myself when she asks when I am having the surgery. I might keep her in the dark for a few years."

A vasectomy diary. "I asked him who would be in the room during the procedure, hoping he would not say "me and a nurse". The nurse is my major concern as I am extremely modest - of course he said "me and a nurse". I jokingly asked "an old nurse?". He said that he had approximately 6 nurses and if I preferred, he would line them up and let me have my pick. SmartA$$, I liked him already. All in all, this was the easiest no brainer in the world - it didn’t even come close to having a tooth filled."

"I chose to go with no sedation. Something I would NEVER recommend to anyone after going thru it. Take the happy drugs - seriously". The update is 7 weeks later upon getting the "All clear".

Childfree vasectomy at 22. Dairenn details how he prepared for the consultation, and he discusses his web research into post-vasectomy clearance.

Mike had a cystoscopy performed at the same time as his vasectomy. He had a couple of aches and pains after the procedure, but concludes:- "Overall the experience has been probably better than average for me I would guess, as I've read so much of guys having what seems to be a fair amount of discomfort the first week or so."

David has his vasectomy way back in 1987. He says "It might be helpful to those considering to report on 17 years post vas. Looking back, this was one the best decisions - had a few partners since and always great for both of us that no worry about pregnancy."

"I had a closed ended NSV Vasectomy three months ago. I had a positive experience and wanted to post the details, since you seem to hear more from those who have had problems. My way of thanking all those who did post their positive experiences and trying to make sure that both sides are heard."

Graham had his NSV vasectomy done in a private practice in the UK. In the UK most vasectomies are performed on the NHS, and not a lot of choice is available. Graham stumped up the cash and went private - read his experience of this.

"Two work colleagues get the snip." Spank and Scott #3 work in the same place, and decided to get snipped together.

Danny is from Canada. His story tells about his consultation and the recovery. He concludes:- "I keep hearing from many of my wife's friends that there husbands are "afraid" to go. Please don't leave this up to the woman as it's a MUCH bigger procedure. Just sign up and do it!"

"A difficult procedure with complications - and an update of how things turned out" is how this one is billed. Steve says "I had a vasectomy two days ago. It did not go well, and I still am not entirely sure what to make of what happened." The story is about the procedure, and there is one update a month afterwards, and a second one month after that dealing with the "samples". He finishes his story by saying "My wife is taking the next one in if she wants final results."

M is Greenfeather's wife. She tells the story from her perspective. "I know how difficult a decision this is for most guys, and didn't know for sure if he would go through with it. We are childfree, and want to remain childfree, so sterilization was a good option. It just remained to be seen who would get sterilized. I'm relieved to be done with birth control pills finally, and very proud of my husband for doing this for us."

"I've read where some of these guys have had sexual experiences within the first week...you guys are crazy. I haven't had the courage to try, I figure I'll hold off for a few more days. Besides, I'm not sure I could get off with stitches on my dingus." Says Matt. He concluded:- "If you're biggest fear is the pain, don't let that stop you, it's really not all that bad."

Titled "Now will you shut up about the episiotomy?". Chris lives in the Netherlands, and wondered if he would practice his language skills during the procedure or not! He concludes:- "No one at work has even guessed. I'm actually dying to tell someone to maybe get some sympathy - and it's always good to steer the conversation around to your genitals, but I don't know how to broach the subject. My 3 year old son is broadcasting to anyone who'll listen that "Daddy's got a sore willy" - after that you WANT to tell them it's not that kind of sore willy, it's only a vasectomy!"

Very funny story of someone's nuts getting stuck in a steam room bench - bet you're glad this didn't happen to YOU! Written 3 days after his vasectomy, with an update promised.

Rick had a vasectomy, and finds his wife is now no longer interested in sex. Also he is worried about possible sperm congestion. He concludes :- "So, I guess the moral of my story is, if you are considering a vasectomy, you'd best make damn sure your wife is in COMPLETE agreement with the decision. It doesn't matter how many kids you do or do not have. Explore her desires, her inner heart, and make absolutely certain she is not harboring a hidden desire for a child. In the same vein of thought, make sure she has matured in your sexual relationship to the point that love making is done for the mutual pleasure of both of you, not in a secret hope that it may result in a pregnancy."

"I was really nervous and tried to talk myself out of it a couple of times, but I had already told everyone at work that I was having it done, and I did not want to seem like a big chicken. The procedure was not as bad as I expected. I hope this might help someone that is nervous about having it done. It really is no sweat at all."

"I am writing this hoping it will put some nerves at ease. Let me tell you guys as stated in many of the postings the anticipation and anxiety is the worst part of the procedure. It really is not that bad if I can do it anyone can. I would recommend the no-scalpel procedure and don’t forget to ask for the valium."

"Out of all the options available (the pill, her getting her tubes tied, condoms etc. etc.) A Vasectomy was by far the most economical, the safest, the most reliable etc. Comparing a vasectomy to a woman have her tubes tied. Well, there just isn't any comparison."

"Would I do it again?? Well, I met a cute young thing a couple weeks ago and we're on the verge of intimacy. In conversation just the other day she told me that she's off the pill for a while and that she believes in abortion-but wouldn't have one sooo....I just smiled and told her that wouldn't be a problem..."

"I had great support from my wife (who did not force me to do this). We agreed it would be on my terms (we had a friend whose wife scheduled it for him). Men remember to do it for yourself 1st and then for your wife and she will LOVE you for it."

Moose got a lot of advice from his work colleagues by asking "are you snipped"? He says:- "I was told who to avoid, how to prepare, and asked why I waited so long (I'm 47 with one kid). I have to admit, it made me feel much better listening to my pals and getting real info instead of the generic hogwash that can be found in the vasectomy handouts."

Written two days afterwards and titled "Ouch - that hurt!". He did have problem on the left side, but concludes:- "Looking back, even when I could feel the vas being burned, it wasn't that bad. Its more of a mental thing than a physical thing. I wouldn't hesitate to do it again if necessary."

"Advice: Make sure you take it easy for two days afterward. I did not and even though there was only mild discomfort I would have been a lot better off. Our sex life took up in 2 weeks and is better now that we don't have to worry any more."

David titles his story "A very minor operation, but a big decision for a man to make". David's marriage was at risk prior to the vasectomy. Unfortunately no update to the story.

This story was titled "Knowledge is power". This is because Mike encourages people to read all they can about the procedure beforehand.

Lee's story is written 23 years after his vasectomy. He had his vasectomy before he got married. Both him and his wife to be had medical problems, so he had a vasectomy and they ultimately adopted a child. He concludes:- "The FREEDOM of worry allowed us to grow and glow together and become one-flesh. In our early married years we were able to explore and experience all the joys and pleasures of our sexuality without fear of pregnancy. It allowed us to get to know and experience each other more fully, at any hour of any day, at any time of the month. This spontaneity brought us together more than any other aspect of our wonderful relationship."

Billed as "our story". It's written jointly with his wife Phloxina. It concentrates on the decision, and has a wealth of advice about the mis-information you can get on the web.

Art developed a couple of extra "balls" during the recovery, but they went within two months. "I am very confident that this will be one of the best investments I've made. So far, I am extremely happy with having a vas. No more kids, no more condoms, no more pills, and spontaneity!" says Art.

"Overall, the result of the procedure is exactly what we wanted: freedom and no worry about more kids. Although it was a little painful to me (I am a wimp when it comes to pain), I am sure it pales in comparison to what my wife went through to bear 2 children. We're both very happy."

"National Health in Manchester - My 20 min op". Vasectomy story in diary form.

Mark has a slightly complex life, and had his vasectomy just prior to the birth of one of his children. "For the past 9 months I've been dreading the moment of my vasectomy. I cant imagine anyone more squeamish than me, (although some of the posts in this web site come pretty close), but anxiety aside, I knew this was something I must do for my own piece of mind. The baby was about to fall out on any given day, and I wanted to be 100% done with this mess and worry free by the time it was born, so I made the appointment for Friday March 22nd 2002......"

Short story written three weeks after his vasectomy. MB concludes:- "All I can say is "don't sweat it - just do it."

No - I don't know why he calls himself that either!! Anyway, snorkle (AKA Gary) is in the UK, and had it done under a GA. He says:- "I will be going back to work after a week off and have been doing some Tai Chi. I will be back to running and doing very vigorous sport in a fortnight. So then guys I really don't know what all the fuss is about."

Two stories in one - from both partners viewpoints. Lisa's story is the original, and Steve added his story later. Steve had a whole host of problems, and went on testosterone replacement therapy. He ultimately had a reversal. Added to the reversal page also.

Story written four weeks afterwards. "I feel like I have joined some sort of club. I can honestly say the worst part has been having the hair grow back in. Seriously......this was truly a piece of cake. If you have been thinking about it, stop thinking, and start acting."

Dave had his vasectomy nearly 30 years ago - he has also designed a vasectomy tattoo! The update deals with his thoughts on the subject 30 years later...

Paul's story is written in a diary format, and contains a wealth of practical advice.

"I had my vasectomy last night at 6:30 pm. I Know at least 5 other guys who had the procedure. All of whom said it was a painless no big thing. I of course was nervous all day, 6:30 in the evening was a long wait.... Home we went, hung out with the kids. I was waiting for the pain to set in, it never did though. This morning went just as well, no pain, no medication, nothing. I had my first erection which felt kinda weird. I will admit, seeing my girl in her gym attire got me excited enough to temporarily forget about my vasectomy, but I will wait at least a few days."

Bruce is from Canada. Before his vasectomy he said that "I almost talked myself out of it. But I decided that the risks were not that great". Afterwards he said "The worst part was the dread and worry I put myself through. I think to say it was "painful" is an overstatement. It was mostly uncomfortable."

Paul had a severe haematoma, and this necessitated emergency surgery. In the update, Paul said:- "When I went in this morning to get the dressings changed, it was infected. So the GP put me on a course of Augmentin 500mg. Well, at least Christmas doesn't look as grim as I 1st thought 'cos at least you can drink on the stuff :) On a brighter note there's no internal pain (which *would* worry me) & I'm sure, over time, the swelling will go down (still a pretty big hard lump in there, but it's much smaller than it was)...". He also talks about vasectomy politics.

Funny story from an English guy titled "Utter coward succeeds after fourth attempt".

Justin asks why some procedures go wrong, and concludes that his went well due to his doctor having 30 years "In the trade".

Vasectomy at 21. He concludes:- "Finally, even though I thought about the vasectomy for two years, I was still a little worried that I might experience what I guess might be thought of as the opposite of postpartum depression after it was *actually* done. Boy was I wrong. No sperm, no worry, and no regrets whatsoever."

"Is three vasectomies on one man the world record?" is the title of Christopher's story. He didn't get the "All clear" after the first vasectomy, another vasectomy was done, and he STILL didn't get the all clear. In the end it was done under a GA. Unfortunately we don't have an update if he was ever cleared!

James recommends asking for Valium or other sedative - it helped him!

Written the day after his vasectomy. Aaron calls his story "My 1Hr 20 min vasectomy". It took a while because the doctor hit an artery and had to repair this. Has some useful tips.

John in Australia was "As nervous as hell" beforehand, but calls his story "I've had paper cuts which hurt more"

"My advice to those have scheduled the operation is to not let your fear overcome what is a very responsible, respected and admirable procedure. There are a lot of guys who "talk the talk" when it comes to planned parenthood, and I'm glad I'm one of those who also "Walked the walk." Remember Yoda: "Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to pain. Pain leads to suffering." Keep a positive attitude, focus on the big picture and remember you're not alone."

"The injections were probably the most uncomfortable part. They are a lot like a dentist's injections, however the pressure buildup as the fluid is injected was VERY uncomfortable. It was weird to watch him wrap the silk, with these big arm movements. Just seemed out of place somehow, give the "delicacy" of the procedure"

A straightforward NSV story titled "No big deal". Jon had done his research and knew what to expect. Except:- "Although my post procedure instructions said no sex for 7 days (I don't believe everything I read) we gave it a shot. TOO SOON! maybe should have been more careful of positions."

he credit's his wife for her support, and his doctor for skill, experience and sense of humour!

"This account is written in the hope that it will help some of you out there that have severe phobias about any form of surgery or in particular about this procedure to get through it, I did and this is how."

This story has a few references to newsgroup threads at the time, and features his responses and opinions to them. He discusses his reasons for vasectomy and has some useful tips.

Scott took the advice of people on the newsgroup/website and was glad he did! He also had a student nurse to contend with.

In response to another newsgroup poster, who was extremely nervous one week before his vasectomy Tom said:- "If you've got the appointment made, that shows a good amount of resolve/willpower to start with. I bet you'll get through it fine. I went to see my regular doctor a month or three ago, for a physical and referral for vasectomy (kinda like buying four bags of potato chips along with your condoms, to cover them up at the store!). They decided it'd be fun to take a blood sample for routine testing, and I got faint and sweaty from the blood draw. Took a while to get cooled off enough to walk to my car and drive home...."

John unusually had the consultation and procedure on the same day. He took a personalised version of this site's checklist and was impressed by the doctor.

Andrew had his vasectomy with the intention of having it reversed later if necessary. Here's his story with a P.S. added one year later. Unusually, this is a link to Andrew's site. He also has some links on his vasectomy page that others may be interested in - especially reversal information.

"Wet Noodles - Nervous Yank NSV story" is the title. James concludes:- "Time will tell, obviously, but so far I am completely pleased with the procedure."

Titled "It is your destiny, young Baybmkr" and is an Open-ended procedure story. "My procedure took place at "High Noon", and I actually shot a few hoops of basketball, and went on a short walk with my oldest son that evening!" says Babymkr. Has some good information about vasectomy research on the net.

Richard calls his story "Think twice". He had his vasectomy just before his 28th birthday after years of contemplating the decision. Some time later he met a lady and became close..... "I plan on having a reversal performed on me as soon as I am able to afford it. You may think that a vasectomy is the right thing to do and for some it probably is but please think twice before going through with it."

"My advice is to all men. Get a vasectomy to make your lover or wife happy. We had ours in 1956. Our sex life is much better and both of us are sexier all the time. Any discomfort is well worth the future results."

This story is a little unusual on two counts. Firstly, Jonathan had a testicle removed for testicular cancer a few years before the vasectomy, and secondly it took four months and four samples before he was declared sterile.

NSV story, written 2 weeks afterwards. "I have no regrets about having the procedure done. Although I'm sure I will feel strange when I'm told I'm sterile, this was a decision I made with my wife for our relationship and for her health."

"We have a four year-old boy, and though more children might have been nice, we were reluctant to try again. We are both getting close to 40 and my wife had some medical complications that made very pregnancy risky. After our son was born, my wife got quite ill. Luckily, she is fine now. We got lucky once and we are thankful for the son we have.... One of the things that did bother me about nearly all of these web pages with the information against vasectomy is that when you clicked on a link for more information it was almost always dead. Finally I tripped upon www.vasectomy-information.com. Finally! A web site that had some decent information. But best of all, it had the survey! And it had some answers that I was looking for!"

"Getting a vasectomy is by no means a decision that should be made lightly, or on the spur of the moment. For those of you in the younger age bracket, make it clear to the doctor that you have thought it out, and that you are aware of the permanence of the decision. Not all doctors will do it for you, but if you are persistent enough, you will find one that will."

Rick titles his story "A breeze". he wrote it two weeks after his vasectomy. "Yesterday was funny as hell when I told my wife "I'm off to work, and by the way you need to drop off that specimen bottle on my night stand at the doctors office this morning". I think that was the most embarrassing part of the whole thing."

"One year on and no regrets" is Charles' title for his story. He describes how his wife had to sign the consent form. His reasons for having a vasectomy are commoner than many think....

"Jeff's trip to Sunkist land" is the title - a reference to "All juice and no seeds" I guess! In his own words:- "Like many of the other contributors to this page, I thought I'd share my experience so that any of you who are considering vasectomy might breathe a bit easier. If you're thinking of having a vasectomy, I hope this has helped you to see that it's not really such a big deal. Good luck!"

South African NSV experience - watch out if you've hairy legs guys!

"Things that go SNIP in the night!" The story also has a link to Graham's own site about his family's move from England to Denver, Colorado. He concludes:- "Just for the record I would add to my story that I needed FIVE tests before being given the all clear, plus I'm sad to say I'm one of the "2%" that's suffered epidipimitus (if that's how you spell it!) regularly since the operation. Sometimes it's really uncomfortable for a few days at a time and I have to take Tylenol. I'm still glad I went through with it though."

Written 21 years after his vasectomy. After six years of marriage, a pregnancy scare polarised Bskulli into making the arrangements for a vasectomy. His story follows the decision, the procedure and his thought on what he would do if he had his time again...

Stuart (from England) says his wife was more nervous than he was! "One thing I have noticed is the number of men who own up to having had, or are going to have, a vasectomy once it's mentioned. Mostly it's a taboo subject, after all you're getting you privates cut, but when the ice is broken then men seem to be happy to talk about it."

Very detailed open ended vasectomy story. Goes into how he found a urologist and the research he did, as well as the procedure and outcome.

Richard wrote this story in part to balance what he felt was an imbalance of views at the newsgroup. "I made the right choice for myself and my wonderful marriage of 7 years. I would recommend this to anyone that is "serious" about birth control and making sex with your "wife" less stressful (after 4 month's)."

NSV vasectomy written a day or so later. "All in all, not bad. The worrying was much worse than the actual event. Again, the worst part for me was the nurse working on me - and that is due to my own idiosyncrasies."

UK vasectomy story, written on the day. "Friday night (the night before) I didn't sleep at all, I was very nervous, telling the lads at the gym didn't help me either. I suppose I was after a bit of sympathy. HA! no chance, I'll tell you now, some of the stories would make best sellers."

Redgie had an open ended procedure, and calls it "The most incredible gift a man can give his wife - the gift of not worrying about getting pregnant. Thanks again for the time and effort you put in to make this such a great website. I think it is one of the best available. Despite there being so many out there, only you and the beavercleaver.net site had information that was helpful to me personally."

"The night before, around midnight, I woke up out of a sound sleep and had visions of a chain saw ripping out my balls! I laid in bed for another minute then ran downstairs and logged on to this web site. I really needed assurance that chain saws were no longer used! .... By this time my nuts were tucked up so tight you would need a crow bar to get to them. I started to have visions of this nurse making fun of my small penis and her going to lunch telling all her friends how tiny it was. By now my penis had shrunk to infantile size, this was really awful!"

For good measure this story has three titles! "A message to the ladies" or "It's a guy type thing" or "Just a Little Snip" My Ass!!! It was originally posted as a rant to a website, but the author felt it would fit right in here. John's wife also has her say.

"The procedure was somewhat intimidating. I am disappointed in myself for not "quizzing" my doctor as much as many of you on this site suggest. For anyone considering this procedure, take everyone's advice. If you have children, and you are satisfied with the number of kids you have, don't hesitate to do this, at least for your wife's sake."

The first part is written 8 days after his vasectomy, when he had been diagnosed with an infection and had just started the antibiotics. Two days later he reported much improvement, and the only problem being "getting my wife in bed with 3 kids and long working days...you get the picture!"

"43 years on" is the title. "I just had my 70th birthday in October, and we have never been sorry that we decided on a vasectomy. Of course, the love of my life is 68 (she'll be 69 on Saturday), and the vasectomy hasn't been an important consideration for many years."

"I had heard from a couple good friends that they used the six pack remedy - buy two six packs and put them in the fridge. When you get back from the Doctors place one six pack on your groin. Then start drinking the other six pack. I thought to myself "I can handle this." I drank 11 of the beers on the first night. I was hung over the next day but my balls felt fine."

"This story (or article, or diary, or whatever you want to call it) chronicles my experiences with a vasectomy performed under a general. There are many debates with respect to whether or not a general is easier. For me I believe a general may have been the right choice."

"My wanting a reversal had nothing to do with wanting to have another child... I have 2 wonderful kids and that's all I want...I just could not continue being sterile... tried "living with it", ignoring it, acting like it never happened... none of it worked..."

"My personal story (or never bring your wife....)". John says he got his wife to watch:- "I figured I had watched her give birth to three children by caesarean and seen her uterus in a doctors hands, so this was the least she could do. This was to be my big mistake."

Ottoman concentrates on his reasoning for vasectomy, and very importantly has a section on "Web information" and the need to be discriminating when reading it!

RTL had a very easy procedure and has some useful tips and "Random thoughts" for us.

Short story entitles "If not for yourself, do it for your wife. She'll love you for it!!!".

Titled "Straightforward vasectomy - but not a straightforward decision". Bernie faced an uphill struggle with his wife to have a vasectomy.

"My advice to fellow teachers. Get it done during the summer or at least on a long weekend. I can't imagine "performing" in front of a classroom full of students the very next day or two."

"So I made the appointment for the counseling session. I had planned to ask a number of careful, learned questions that would impress the doctor with my medical insight. Instead I ended up sweating through a good shirt I would end up having to wear all day and stammering into my shoes that "yes I was absolutely sure that this was the right decision for me". Not sure about anything at that point, I scheduled the procedure for a full three weeks later and settled down to a new life as a complete nervous wreck......."

Greg admits to being nervous (we all were Greg!!) It wasn't as bad as he was expecting, and he concludes "All in all it was a cake walk. My advice stop worrying, its not worth it."

New Yorkers NSV diary, started the day after his vasectomy. Kenny says:- "Although abstinence has been the way in our house, I would absolutely do it again if i was given the choice to go back in time. I had a cavity filled at the dentist last week. Vasectomy is not nearly as bad and is much quicker (and cheaper if you have insurance)".

"33 years later...." is the title. Jack was still happy with his vasectomy many years later, and reports no problems.

New Yorker's experience - "Alternative uses for Sellotape and rusty scissors." is the title. Jim didn't say if it hurt when they pulled the tape off!

Jason got married at 21 and had his vasectomy at 23. He felt "Less whole" immediately after the all clear was given, but 5 years later he reports:- "I’m glad I had it done. I have no regrets."

"Last fall I found that I had developed high blood pressure and would not be able to use the pill. We tried condoms for about a month. I had forgotten how really bad they are. We had to find something better." She concludes:- "Donald said that the vasectomy went so well that he wished he had twenty years ago when I had the last boy. I feel that it made our life simpler and our love life better."

NSV story. Gary concludes "All in all, I would recommend the NSV - I would rather go through the whole process again, than go to the dentist. It was quick, painless, and no stitches (I went home with a band-aid).

Written ten days later and titled "It's easier than you think guys". After a condom failure Rodney says:- "My primary reason for having a vasectomy was because I lost all faith in using condoms as a secure form of birth control and I wanted to make sure that I did not have a fourth child. I was dreading the possibility of two painful needles directly into the testicles and all of the pain that was supposed to follow. I am happy to report that the whole thing was a breeze."

Stephen's story it titled "Why vasectomy is the right decision, and a titanium clips horror story". He concludes:- "After all that, I would still do it again. Procedurally, it's less inconvenient and uncomfortable than having your teeth cleaned. In fact, I would rather have a vasectomy than get a tooth filled. I can't believe I was so foolish not to have it done years ago when it would have meant something to my wife."

Tim had the NSV procedure. "Afterward, I experienced very minor discomfort that lasted about two hours. It wasn't a stabbing pain or even a very dull ache. It felt more like a little bit of pressure, but definitely bearable. 400mg of Motrin helped. It's recommended to stay off your feet for 24 hours, but after 4 hours on the couch, I felt fine. If you have any concerns about the pain, don't ignore them, deal with them. It is definitely not what you would think it is."

Matt comes from Australia. His story has a wealth of useful information, including information for sportsmen.

A story from the early days of the newsgroup/website that explains how we helped the guy through his vasectomy.

"I just wanted to let you guys know how it went. I feel good that my fertility is in my own hands. No more worries about unwanted pregnancies. A weight has been lifted from my shoulders." concludes Brad.

In depth conventional surgery. "Now in a monogamous relationship you can have unprotected sex without fear of getting pregnant. Thank God! There's nothing like great sex without condoms!" says Brett.

English guy's experience where general anaesthetic used, written the day after. Cass says (tongue in cheek of course) "Those who have partners, they must understand that you are to be treated like Royalty. Don't let them get away without a good deal of pampering etc, after all they only had the babies...."

Dan was nervous, and had an IBS attack just before the procedure was done. "Research, research, research! (But don’t believe everything you read). Find a doctor that is willing to answer your every question and if he doesn't, get a different doctor! Thank you all for helping me through this. The Internet is a very valuable resource and I don't know where I'd be without it." says Dan.

"This page helped me make my decision to have a vasectomy, so I'm offering my own first hand account of the procedure to hopefully help some other poor worried soul :)".

"Beware of men with beards" is Dave's title. Funny tale from an English guy who concludes "Don't hesitate, look after your woman's health and be a man. I'm off for a sleep in front of the fire."

A story about post operative problems (resolved) including blood in ejaculate. He concludes "It's now just about 8 weeks since the procedure (I can't really call it "surgery"), and I have *no* regrets. My wife is grateful to a degree that decorum prohibits me from describing here, and like I said before, I feel almost completely normal."

Fred's story is about the problems that can be caused by untreated post operative infection.

Kip is one of the founder members of the newsgroup, and the first web master of the group website. In fact, this stories section was his idea! Here is his story.

In depth No Scalpel experience, with lady surgeon, lady assistant and girl fiend present!

Funny English story. "When my turn came I was wheeled into the theatre and my underwear was removed. The theatre sister said as she put the sterile cloth over me "LOOK GIRLS! Just like a man's only smaller!! So here I was with my tackle framed in green cloth for all to see when the surgeon appeared with a grin like a Cheshire Cat! Undemanded erections are completely impossible at this stage!"

UK NHS standard vasectomy experience. Titled "Beware of women with razors" because his wife "Got a bit carried away shaving him".

Uplifting Irish story. "In final, if you have seen your wife give birth - your pain is nothing. The female equivalent is much more painful! Although there are some bad, scary stories here. I am fortunate to have a great doctor and nurse and a supporting wife. Get a good doctor-do it in a hospital and take it easy! Go for it guys-your wife will be VERY grateful!"

Trifold is one of the regular contributors to this site and the newsgroup. His story is entitled "All you ever wanted to know about post-vasectomy sex but were afraid to ask..."